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    help please!

    Thursday, April 10, 2008, 03:55 PM [General]

    there is a friend of mine undergoing a very serious drug addiction.ive talked to his family and they say that they have tried eveything , rehab,therapy,all of it. its really sad to me to see what this addiction is doing to my friend's family. as a friend i am so scared that somthing is going to happen to him. the worst part of it is that i kno that he is is still there, just sort of trapped inside this other totally different person.my friend does make an attempt to get out of this"state" by contacting me and trying to get away from others who still do drugs,which alarmingly is almost eveyone else he knows ,save for me and his family. and he knos a LOT of people, and they all do the same drug.

    i thought that he did drugs every other day or somthing,i dont kno, but his family said he does it EVERY damn day. they also said hes been to the docter and his lungs are in very bad shape.i never have done drugs or alcohol , nor have any desire to do so ,so i have been a positive influence on my friend for a long time,but now  its seems as though he prefers to company of drug dealers and others. he has so much TALENT.in fact he has a chance to become a major part of the music industry, and i dont mean rap.i mean singing ,HE IS THROWING HIS LIFE AWAY. he is really a CARING person. he is always there for people when they need a shoulder to lean on. he has been an insiration to me for the past three years. he  saved my LIFE once. almost went off the side of a cliff and he pulled me back up. he means so much to me , so please ,  if there is somthing, anything that anyone can suggest please ,please tell me

    any spells or well wishes or advice would be greatly appreciated and for anyone reading this i thank you for taking the time to read this

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    MM Hali,this is quite a situation,have u sat down and had a heart to heart with him, tell him how YOU feel?
    A person on drugs is a very delicate thing, and from what u have spoken , he seems to care for others , but not himself. One would need to try and get close to him so that he may open up. I know its hard when hes runnin with others who are heavy into the drugs, ive know many in the same situation, and i have lost a few friends to overdosing or suicide.
    I will send positive energy to you and yr friend, i will also send u positive strength, and as for spells, im not sure what to offer, have u tried making an amulet or talisman for him, u don't need to tell him what it is, just something "special" from u to him. I gave a friend of mine an ancient coin with a protection spell on it, and it works. These are only sugestions, im not familiar with yr friend, and am not sure how they veiw paganism.
    But im here if u wanna talk, im gonna add u to my yahoo messanger so u can reach me that way too.
    My thoughts and energy im sendin yr way my dear pagan sis, HUGZ to u and yr friend, i hope all goes well, keep in touch,k?! BB)o(

    Rainsttorm
    April 10, 2008
    05:15 PM CST

    It sounds like to me that an INTERVENTION must happen and soon! Your friend needs to go to rehab again, and his closest family and friends must stand united on what stance you all must take on his addictions. Quite simply he is killing himself and you and his family fear this (or possibly already think this). 'Tough love' is needed ... you all need to approach him and tell him how you feel. You must not enable him but tell him you are willing to be part of the recovery not his demise. As for the spells I would do some some banishing of the neagtive aspects in his life (ie.. dealers, drug addicted friends, party life style etc). I would also do some positive magick like attract healing and goodness, etc. Make him an amulet and charge it with strenghth, love, endurance and great will to see him through a change or metamorphis if you will! Tell him to wear this while he goes through recovery and that you had this blessed for him. Pick something that uniquely screams him. the old him as you described somewhere inside, pure and the healthy friend you once knew! However, your friend still has to be part of some sort of support Narcotic/Addictions group to help him stay straight on his path. You too should join a support group so you know what to do and how to handle this. Your friend has to ultimately change his behaviors, friends and old ways.! A lot of this sadly will be up to him. You and his family must stand firm and united out of love and be strong! Pray for him and I will light a candle for all of you and send healing powers your way. This will be a long road to recovery but action must be taken now and before its too late! Good Luck ~ Blessed Be ~ Bia ' Aletheia

    Bia'Aletheia
    April 10, 2008
    05:23 PM CST

    Hi honey, I feel for you and I feel your concern. Your friend is very lucky to have someone like you to care for him, sometimes that`s all they need.
    I`m guessing it`s pot he`s abusing or something that gets smoked thru a pipe, I`m hoping it`s just pot, it`s an easier habit to break.
    How does your friend feel about his addiction? Does he feel it is effecting his life? Because if he doesn`t, all you can do is be there for him until such time he decides to take control.
    The reason people take drugs is because it makes them feel better than they have felt, so finding the underlying issue is important. Why does he do drugs? The answer to that will help alot.
    He may feel as though everyone is ganging up on him, involuntary rehab
    makes a person bitter and defensive. Depending on the drug of course.
    I don`t advise giving him an amulet without telling him what it is for, regardless of what it is, if it`s a gift from your heart, he`ll treasure it and believe in its power, the power of love is an amazing healer.
    Cast a blue bubble around him each time you think of him, it will help in his healing.
    He needs to heal from whatever has led him to the path of drugs.
    Ask the Goddess for help in understanding him. Ask him for help in understanding him.
    Everything is for a reason, he is here to teach and to learn, which he will do both in this lifetime.Everyone has a purpose. Even if it`s not evident at the time.
    Blessings to you & may the Goddess guide you in helping your friend.

    BWitch
    April 10, 2008
    10:35 PM CST

    I'm so sorry for both you and your friend. I know from first hand experience how hard and painful that is to watch someone you care about go through. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

    TwiliteMyst
    April 11, 2008
    03:59 AM CST

    I think the best you can do is do work to strengthen yourself. A drug addict can drain all his friends completely, take it from me. You love him, he saved your life, but he will keep fucking up until he is ready to stop. You cannot do the saving yourself, so do your wishes, your spells, your prayers for yourself to be what is needed in this situation: strong, patient, forgiving, loving and assertive of your own needs.

    Jan
    April 19, 2008
    05:05 PM CST

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